Sunday, April 7, 2013

Arranged Marriage "A sneak peak preview as to how it get's done in India"




Marriage can be really tough at times and when it comes to Indian marriages it makes it even worse,
We have this system called the arrange marriage,
Where in a  man and a women get married without having seen each other,
They get married because their parents want them too,
The interesting part is that the the groom wouldn't have seen the brides face,
He would then go  and tell his father that he wants to meet his future wife,
his father would say, no its against our tradition and then hand him over a photograph saying this is how she looks like,
after looking at the picture he would be like “wow, she looks beautiful, is dad serious?oh my god !!all my life I thought of him as my enemy and now he has chosen such a good looking girl for me,maybe I was wrong”,
he would have literally fallen in love with the picture,he would have started dreaming about her every single day
The marriage day finally arrives and they get married,
Even during the marriage he wouldn't have had the opportunity to actually see her actual face as her face would have literally covered with make up, Jewellery and all of that you know,
After the marriage he gets busy greeting the guests and then night falls in,it’s the first night ritual,lights go out and nobody wants to miss out on that,
The next morning he wakes up and is literally searching for his wife,it’s still a mystery for him as to how she looks like,
And then some lady brings him a glass of coffee, he thinks it’s  the maid but then she starts smiling and giggling ,he starts getting uncomfortable, he asks her as to where his wife is and she says that she is his wife,
He would be going through a shock of his life after hearing that, he tells her that he has a picture of her and that it doesn't look anyway close to the way she looks and she would reply to him stating that, “honey,it’s been photo-shopped”.
He then goes to his father and asks him why did he do this to him and father would say that ,his father had done the same thing to him and it  was the only way he is was gonna get his revenge,
The next day he stands in-front of the mirror and literally talks to his reflection,
“your life is gone,your dreams are shattered, your wife looks miserable, your career is going nowhere,so what do you want to do now….
All of a sudden he hears a noise in the background,it says honey….
He is like “listen, now lets at-least go and try making that stupid wife of mine happy”…. 

2 comments:

  1. You really have a good feel on this topic, and the way you wrote about it made it both entertaining to read, and informative at the same time. I will definitely check back in the future to read such a profitable blog.I also have a similar information about Free Matrimonial App on facebook for Arrange Marriage that also presents Matrimonial Speed Dating in India .You can log on to http://www.marryinaweek.com/events/ for more information.

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    1. thanks man!!anyways I'm not sure whether this is going to get me hitched!! lol

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